The purpose of the Society is to discuss these individuals in order to learn more about them and
share information about your "Black Sheep" with other members of the IBSSG! Many times
having a Black Sheep in the family leads to a family "wall of silence" and research into the family
becomes very difficult. Our Goal is to help find alternate routes to information sources, and to
"normalize" the view of the black sheep as a person, who has a place in the FACTUAL history of
the family, without regard to behaviors.
Just so you don't think me immune from sheep such as these and so you will feel that
you're in good company, here is my application for membership and my acceptance letter:
Remember, the acts may be embarrassing to others in your family, but within the
Society, you are not alone! Many of us have similar situations, and can relate (actually many of us
are related) to the problems in doing this research.
Jeff Scism, IBSSG, Flockmaster
March 13, 2001
His answer was:
Would you please consider me for qualification as a member of the International Black
Sheep Society of Genealogists? I refer to three of my ancestors and their accounts may also be
found on my personal web site, "The Koska~Timm Family Rosebush" found at
The first concerns my ggggggggg-grandfather, Henry Wolcott. Since he was "had up"
in the courts, I believe his misdeeds would fall within the "criminal" category, considering this
happened in the 1600's.
Henry, his wife Elizabeth, and their children sailed to America in 1630 on the "Mary
and John." This was the same year the ten ships of the Winthrop fleet sailed and just ten years
after the Mayflower sailed. Henry's grandson Roger became governor of Connecticut 1750-54.
His g-g-great-grandson Oliver was the governor of Connecticut 1796-97 and was also a Signer of
the Declaration of Independence.
Despite the noble and notable history of this family, there was a dark page in their past!
The records of the Bishop of Bath and Wells record that on July 17, 1609, Henry Wolcott was:
"Had up for incontinence with Elizabeth, his wife, before marriage. They were married two years
agone and she was delivered of child within thirty weeks after."
(Goodness, I was delivered of child, well, children ~ they were twins, within that same approximate time span of 30 weeks and they
were my fourth and fifth children!)
In the same year that Henry was being held accountable, depositions taken between
May and September revealed that: "Hugh Treble was had up for fathering an illegitimate male
child on the body of Agnes Saunders, daughter of Thomas Saunders of Lydiard, St. Lawrence
some seven or eight years before." (Now, Agnes was the sister of Henry's wife Elizabeth. Seems
to me that the charges of incontinence should possibly have been shared with the Saunders girls!)
The second concerns my great-great-great-grandparents John and Electa Wilhelm,
whose granddaughter was, incidentally, in the same line as Henry Wolcott. This incident was of a
social nature, harmful only to John himself. However, had he had survived the incident, it may
have been considered criminal!
John and Electa had a serious fight which led to Electa's moving out of her home to live
with a daughter. She died while there and was buried away from the family plot. Later, John
decided to exhume her body by himself and move her to the place where they had intended to be
buried together or to where he had decided they should be buried together. While he was digging
her up, he himself died.
The third concerns my paternal grandfather. Because he was not apprehended, it will
remain a social indiscretion.
According to my brother, our grandfather Frank had a still during the depression and
sold his moonshine. Now, this was not in the back hills of Kentucky, but on the vast plains of
Minnesota! Of course, at that time "la creme de la creme" brewed the stuff in their bathtubs!
Once, when Grandpa was on his way to sell a load in his new car, he was beset by revenuers who
shot at the car. When he got home and Grandma saw the damage, he tried to blame the holes on
the gravel roads!
On another occasion, Grandma sent Dad out to dig up the garden. When Grandpa
found what he was doing, he beat Dad because he had some moonshine stashed there. When my
daughter heard this story, she said that Grandma probably knew about the buried moonshine and
told Dad to dig hoping that the stash would be exposed without her intervention!
Thank you for your kind attention to my request.
Barbara Koska Timm
Yes on three counts of Qualification, attempted body snatching and all.
Because of my acceptance into the society, I am now entitled to sign genealogical
correspondence as "Barbara Koska Timm, IBSSG!" Meanwhile, my cousin is searching for
evidence that will qualify us as "Decendants of Bastards of English Royalty!"
If your ancestor was saint or cudge,
Who are we to be the judge?
For seldom is a person known,
By a few facts and stories shown.
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