Just a thought, but I'll bet you could put on your father's stone....
"James Elbrecht, who joined his beloved wife, Kathleen (Adair) Elbrecht
Your records will show how this is physicly(sp?) true as well as
-- email@example.com or firstname.lastname@example.org >From beautiful, upstate NY. Near Schenectady, the city that used to 'Light and haul the world'.