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Where to begin? Charles
Dickens' David Copperfield must have been a closet genealogist. He said, "To
begin my life with the beginning of my life, I record that I was born . . ."
That's how you should begin also. Write
down everything you already know about yourself, your parents, and your grandparents.
Don't worry if, once you have it written down, you realize you do not know much.Get
it down on paper so that you have a starting place.
Start
at Home. Document your own life first by gathering records and information
about your birth, marriage, graduation, military service and so forth. Look around
the house for photographs, documents, old letters, diaries, newspaper clippings,
and family Bibles. Ask your parents and grandparents about such items also.
Birth, marriage and death records information
(by states):
What's available; who to contact; costs,
etc.
Vital
Records 
VitalChek

Use a Family
and Home Information Sources Checklist as a guide to sources of information
you might find in your home or the home of a relative. Talk to all your older-generation
relatives (before they are gone and you are the older generation).
What Should You Ask? Armed with
what you do know, then start asking questions. Genealogists can put reporters
to shame. After all, we want to know everything. Talk to your parents and your
grandparents. Write to them or call them. Write to and call your cousins, aunts,
and uncles. Interview those people who lived near your family, and don't forget
old family friends.
Learn to ask the right
questions. If you ask Uncle Fred to "tell me everything you know, he
may side-step you by responding that he can't remember anything. Ask specific
questions that jog the memory. Whenever possible, show old photographs of people
and places.
Names. Dates. Places. While
it is important to ask the basic questions about the whens and wheres of births,
marriages, and deaths, you can sometimes get more information from relatives
by asking about other aspects of their life. Here are some questions that will
help you get more than just names, dates, and places:
- Who were you named for?
- Did your grandmother tell you any special stories?
- Who was your best friend and what did you like to do together?
- Where did you go to school?
- What was your favorite holiday? Why?
- Were you in the military?
- Have you done any traveling? Where did you go? Who with?
- What was your first home or apartment like?
- More
oral history questions to ask.
Be sure to write down the answers.
If your relative doesn't object, audio or video taping would be even better.
However, this sometimes makes a person self-conscious and they may not be as
forthcoming, but usually they will forget all about it within a few minutes.
Prepare for an interview by making notes in advance about the questions you want
to ask and by being somewhat familiar with the family you will be asking questions
about.
Inquire regarding:
Home
and community life. "What do you remember about the houses you
lived in?"
Personalities
and relationships. What was your relationship like with your mother/father/sister/brother?
Economic
conditions. How did the family earn money? Who worked?
Family
characteristics. What were the most outstanding family characteristics.
Any diseases that run in the family? Was there a black sheep in the family?
Family
Facts. Try to fill in the blanks on your Pedigree Charts and Family
Group Records.
How are you related to
___?
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Take your time during interviews; be
prepared for a leisurely chat. People have a way of wandering off the subject,
but you can gently move the conversation back to the matters of interest. Be
considerate of elderly family members and do not let an interview go on too long.
Make the interview enjoyable so they will look forward to hearing from you again.
Immediately after the interview, transcribe
your notes while they are fresh. Note the things you did not have time to ask
or forgot to ask so you will be prepared for a follow-up interview. Sample interview questions
compiled by the Smithsonian Institution Office of Folklife Programs can be downloaded
and/or printed. Use them to help you gather oral histories.
Family Folklore: How to
Collect Your Own Family Folklore is a guide produced to accompany
the exhibition, The Grand Generation: Memory, Mastery, Legacy, organized
by the Smithsonian Institution Office of Folklife Programs and the Smithsonian
Institution Traveling Exhibition Service (SITES). SITES is a program activity
by the Smithsonian Institution that organizes and circulates exhibitions on art,
history and science to institutions in the United States and abroad.

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Suggested Reading
& References |
Allen, Desmond Walls and Billingsley,
Carolyn Earle. Beginner's Guide to Family History Research.
Arkansas Research
Angevine, Erma. Instructions for
Beginners in Genealogy. Arlington, Va.: National
Genealogical Society.
Balhuizen, Anne Ross. Getting
Started: How to Begin Researching Your Family History. Indianapolis: Ye Olde Genealogie Shoppe
Greene, Bob and Fulford, D. G. To
Our Children's Children, Preserving Family Histories for Generations to Come.
New York: Doubleday.
Jacobus, Donald L. Genealogy as
Pastime and Profession. Baltimore: Genealogical
Publishing Co., Inc. 1930. (reprint, 1978).
Taylor, Maureen. Through the Eyes
of Your Ancestors: A Step-by-Step Guide to Uncovering Your Family History. Boston:
Houghton Mifflin Company. 1999.
Wolfman, Ira. Do People Grow on
Family Trees? Genealogy for Kids & Other Beginners. New York: Workman Publishing. 1991.
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