My Dear Cousin Geraldine Barton.
It was so
nice for you to answer my letter so promptly,to say the least I am
overcome. And the photographs brought to mind many fond and
almost forgotten incidents in my life, which were so very
different from the environment of this age. Really, there is no
compareson socially, morally, and piritually. I compromise
more or less, but yet an away from being a modernist.
This age has many things to offer humanity and we should
appreciate them and use them as our creator would have us
to use them. This is a wonderful age, I deem it the golden
age of civilization and I am proud to have
been born it beginning. Our great
nation has advanced more in all phases of existance since
the beginning in the last century than it had 5000 years pre
to this age. Which I am sure God intended should be such.
And our spiritual growth should match material growth.
Quote General McArthur a great soldier. We pray this will
eventually be so.
I am yet up in the
air over your wonderful letter. My supposition
of your nature have not failed me.
Your writings show a wonderful open pure minded attitude
toward your race, and with your height
and weight, I don’t see how
you support such a big heart, you make me feel ashamed
to laud my tallents. You should be writeing a biography.
The memories of
your own family tree of your mother. After all you
would not be here if she had not met your dear dad and her
husband who I am proud to know he lifted himself up by
his own boot straps so to speak. I wish I could
have known more of him after he grew into manhood.
I really believe he was especially blessed when he met your
mother.
She surely was the salt of
the earth.
You know the gospel states ,find a virtuous woman she is more precious
than silver or gold. I am not trying to render a sermon
you.
I never waste flattery
on anyone but my wife Essie! I only try to give flowers
to those who are alive and drink in their water. Beauty
physically and visually I believe described my mother to you. As being
much like your grandfather Uncle Will, she was a wonderful woman but
the dominant type. Probably some gene from the Reece clan.
Your great- grandfather Forbes was the kindest most generous person
I have ever knew. And I should know because I grew up under
his tutelage. And I regret I did not pay attention fully to
what
he tried to pound into my head,
I remember my mother had freckles but did not give a
hoot as to what anyone thought about it. Never used cosmetics.
She could get angry and she and Uncle Will had many heated
discussions. her hair was a firey red.
After her brood all married
off but myself, she wore her hair in long braids about 24
inches long. Eventually it became burdensome and she cut
it off and wore a short bob, which looked nice. I had kept
the old plaited hair braids in the family archives but after her death
I buried them on our place in Glenwood N. M. I can
yet say she was
a very special person. I yet
remember the nursery rhyme she taught me. In those days that
was a must, So many of the old countrys ways of living have
been forgotten, Those two youngsters of yours and your husband are
real specimens of true Americans, also judging by their photos will
make history in this age. And I do not want to leave out
your husband by his appearance I would trust him with my
life.
I have known many men of
his nature. You should be very happy. God
blessed family. Something to be very proud of in this
age, I can recall young men who worked sometimes fourteen
hours a day and never heard of such a law of labor as overtime.
Bank tellers and business clerks who drew about eight dollars
a week and menial or common labor was as little as twenty
two cents a day. Farm labor thirty five cents a day even in
the depression days. How about that! Today I have friends
which are paid one hundred and fifty dollars a day eight
hours with coffee and smoke breaks.
Fantastic
my dear cousin. Since we are digging up the family skeletons
I will agree with you that my Uncle Will was a hard task
master toward his family.
And if he ever gave God credit for his blessings I do not know. But
I pray he did before he passed away.
I remember Aunt Kate as a very
fine old fashioned woman. She as I forestated never crossed Uncle
Will’s authorieties and neither did any of his progeny.
My knowledge of he and
his family is not very clear from about nineteen twenty
nine on. The last time I saw Uncle Will and Aunt
Kate was when he visited Glenwood, N.M. and I just briefly
talked to him. You stated in your first letter you might
have been with him. I
do not know about this
as he did not stay with my family but put up in the hotel here.
As I stated I always managed to get along with him and let him talke
about his holdings, farm, horses , ____, _____. I remember
his home being destroyed by fire in Terry County. That hurt
him pretty bad. Everything they had was lost and money
then was short. When I dwell on family troubles and tragedys
I can find
to many in my own. In my
estimation no family is immune from the traumatic things.
Uncle Will’s family turned out better
than most. People thought his children were commendable. And
I am sure you believe your dad was tops in your own opinion or you
would not write to me as you
do about him. I will grant that
what I know or knew of him he was a good husband to
your mother and fine person to you. Like my father was to
me. Children can and do sometimes have cause to build halos around
their parents. Some deserve this others do not.
Our blue blood ancestors also had their problems. From the revolutionary
war throughout the civil war which broke up the aristocratic trend
in families. Some hit it very hard others weathered the
class storm. I can very well recall in our hometown , the
old checker players, the veteran’s of the civil war yet
getting angry with each other and fighting the Civil War
over agan. Now they are all gone these many years.
All this period of my young life seems much like a
fantastic dream, unbelievable, incredible, where brother fought brother.
As my grandmother Nettie Reece Forbes use to narrate many incidents
of the civil war. I am glad you are able to visit some of these
old bloody historical battle grounds and relive a part of it mentally.
After all some of your great grandfather’s genes have been passed
down to you. You never now how your genetic trends will
end up from Adam to this day. It’s difficult to conceive
that one drop of (male sperm)
can be the substance of thousands of
genetic family traits and trends. You may inhearet the best
things of the family or otherwise. Isn’t life a wonderful
thing. And only God can give it to you.